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Discipline: Word and
Concept
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By Ken Chapman, Ph.D.
Ken Chapman & Associates, Inc.
Sometimes the best way to get a handle on a difficult concept is to study
the derivation of the word involved. How did it come into being? What
various meanings does the word hold? How does it relate to similar words?
What is the connection between what the word means and how it is really
used? This approach should help you to get a better fix on the word and the
concept of discipline.
The
word discipline is built upon the same root word as “disciple” which the
dictionary defines as “one who accepts and follows” a teacher. It would
seem to follow then that “discipline” would refer to some kind of practice
or training that would help prepare someone to become a disciple, a
follower. The dictionary concurs by defining the word as “training of the
mental, moral, and physical powers by instruction, control, and exercise.”
Assume that you want to become a great baseball player and that Barry Bonds
is your idol. Further assume that Barry Bonds comes to your town one day
and that you get the opportunity to get together with him to discuss
baseball. You end up on the parking lot throwing a baseball around and your
new friend, Barry Bonds, gives you some pointers on how to improve your
control. You know what? You have just had a disciplinary interview with
Barry Bonds.
The
example is extreme, of course, but the definitions and the concept are
probably more on target than you might think. This is by no means an easy
concept for a supervisor to keep in perspective. Years of conditioning have
fixed the words in our minds as being connected with punishment and pain.
Correct understanding reveals that discipline is not about punishment and
pain, but rather about re-direction, development, and growth. You
discipline children not because you want to inflict punishment and pain, but
because you love them. You are concerned about them, and want to help them
develop into disciples — followers of ideas and values you hold as a parent
and wish to transmit to them. The same use of the word is the only proper
use of the word in the work situation.
A
more functional, but equally sound definition of “discipline” is “the
training which makes punishment unnecessary.” This definition of the word
contains the notion that the whole point of engaging in discipline is to
develop self-discipline and self-control. Discipline gets its
bad reputation not from the word or its true definition, but from the human
tendency to temper it with anger or revenge.
When
a child breaks a rule, we discipline the child to help teach the
significance of the rule. We then expect that the child will be able to
develop enough self-control not to violate it again. All too often,
however, we discipline because we are angry. We love the child, but when
our rules get broken, we are hurt.
When
we get hurt we get mad. When we get mad, we seek revenge against the source
of the pain. At work we also get hurt when an employee violates a rule or
pushes us to the breaking point. We have a natural tendency to strike back,
get even, and “show them who’s boss.” It is very human. But it is also
very unprofessional and very unproductive.
Does
this mean that supervisors should not discipline? No. On the contrary, as
a supervisor, you not only should discipline, but you have to
discipline. It is part of your job and it comes with the territory. But,
understand that effective discipline in an organization is a constructive,
problem-solving process designed to correct, mold, and improve. It is an
organizational matter and not a personal matter. If you are in a
supervisory position and are not concerned with discipline, then you are not
earning your paycheck. Likewise, if you are in a supervisory position and
use disciplinary means to satisfy your own frustration, you are taking money
under false pretenses.
Creating a Proper Climate
This
discussion so far has focused on the meaning and purpose of discipline. Now
let’s talk about where you fit in. Many supervisors shy away from the use
of disciplinary measures. They work out of an assumption which equates
being lax with being popular. They fear that invoking disciplinary measures
will harm the careful work they have done in building good human relations
bridges between themselves and their reports. They feel, perhaps
subconsciously, that using their power is going to create a lot of tension,
make everyone hate them, and generally mess up the climate they have worked
so hard to create. When faced with an inevitable infraction such a
supervisor prefers to turn his or her head, chalk it up to human frailty,
and act as if it never happened. While you might admire such intentions and
empathize with a desire to avoid discord, you must ultimately face the fact
that such behavior is naïve and guaranteed to be ineffective. If, as a
supervisor, you turn your back on discipline today, you are programming
disaster for tomorrow. When employees see you shirk your disciplinary
responsibility, they assume that you consider the rules, regulations, and
policies of the organization to be unimportant or that you are weak. Either
assumption will be devastating. Employees, in general, want to obey the
rules and do a good job. Most people want to give an honest day’s work for
an honest day’s pay, but only as long as that behavior is expected of them
and is the norm throughout the organization. People are willing to play
fair as long as everyone else plays fair. But if employees observe a peer
producing sub-standard work, coming in late, stretching or breaking safety
rules, and getting away with it, they resent the fact because it is
unfair. If such behavior goes uncorrected for any length of time, then they
attempt to make the situation “fair” by following the example of the rule
breaker and getting what they’ve gotten. The old saying that “one rotten
apple spoils the whole barrel” is very true.
The
proper climate for effective discipline is one of fairness. How then do you
go about producing and maintaining such a climate? You start with rules,
regulations, and policies. These need to be in writing and should be
considered as a guide to expected behavior. They also should contain an
explicit list of penalties which correspond to the infractions. Your
company may already have such a “policy manual” which is given to new
employees as they join the company. If such a document does not exist,
maybe you can be instrumental in helping to get one written. Remember that
your aim is to create a fair climate and fairness is only possible when
there are some ground rules. Be electing to join your company and by
receiving a written copy of the ground rules, your employees have entered
into a kind of contract. You have put your ideas about expected behavior in
writing. You have communicated in advance what kind of behavior you expect
and what kinds of penalties will be imposed if that behavior is not
forthcoming. The whole point of a policy manual is to insure fairness.
The
second step in building a proper climate for discipline depends on you and
what you do to enforce the written policies. The important concept here is
consistency. The whole doctrine of fairness will fall apart if you
adopt an inconsistent approach to enforcement. Every violation should be
acted on, even though the exact circumstances, situations, and intent
surrounding the violation may suggest that you choose between several
different ways of handling it. To be consistent is to take action every
time you encounter a violation. This does not mean that you must prescribe
exactly the same penalty for a particular infraction at all times and in all
circumstances. Remember that your objective is fairness.
Assume that you encounter two employees, Joe and Pete, smoking in a
non-smoking area. Joe has been employed for several months and twice in
that time you have asked him not to smoke in this area. Each time you have
pointed out that he is violating the rules and explaining that safety
measures make it dangerous to smoke there. The last time you spoke to him,
you reminded him that company policy provides for immediate suspension for
intentional violation of a safety rule and warned him that if he smoked
again in this area, he would be suspended. Pete, on the other hand, just
started work this week. On his break, he looked for a smoking area, saw Joe
smoking, and assumed that it was all right to smoke there. Should Pete and
Joe receive the same penalty? Obviously not. By suspending Joe and
verbally warning Pete, you have taken action and your action is consistent
even though you have prescribed different penalties for the same offense.
Here
is the important principle to remember. Be consistent in acting on
violations and tailor the penalty to fit the circumstances. When you act
consistently and fairly over a period of time, you condition your employees
to an understanding that violation of a rule will have an inevitable
result. You have objectified the matter of discipline and minimized your
role in it. If an employee violates a rule, that employee does so in the
certainty that you will act. Thus, you have removed personalities, whim,
and uncertainty from the process and helped your employees understand that
discipline is the training that makes punishment unnecessary.
How and When — The Disciplinary Interview
Discipline should be fair and objective. Employees like to be treated
fairly and objectively. It is possible and probable that the disciplinary
interview will actually improve the relationship between you and the
employee. What counts most is your approach. Remember that your goal is to
correct, improve, and mold and those are all positive endeavors. If you
transmit this attitude, you can actually have an employee leave a
disciplinary interview feeling good, glad that he or she works under your
leadership, and with a renewed sense of confidence and self-respect.
Handling a disciplinary interview will be a good test of your communication
ability. Here are some procedural steps which can make you more effective
in disciplining.
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Prepare for the interview by getting the facts
and checking the employee’s record. Getting the facts may involve your
review of documents such as time cards, production reports, inventory
lists, [union contract, if applicable] as well as interviewing eye
witnesses.
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Schedule the interview in a quiet place where you
will have absolute privacy. The interview should be scheduled as soon
after the offense as possible.
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Begin the interview with open-ended questions and
avoid being aggressive and accusatory.
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Give the employee a chance to explain his or her
position fully. Listen carefully for points of agreement and
disagreement with the facts as you have found them.
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Discuss the facts you have collected and your
interpretation and evaluation of them. See the employee’s response and
listen carefully and attentively to the employee. If the explanation
convinces you that you are wrong about some of your facts or
evaluations, admit it. Be aware of the possibility of an honest mistake
having been made.
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Remain objective and remember that the purpose of
this process is rehabilitation not punishment. Therefore, make sure the
employee understands the reasons behind the rule or regulation that has
been violated and the importance of everyone’s cooperation in abiding by
the rules.
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In deciding on the penalty to invoke, continue in
your attempt to be fair. Also, give some consideration to how you think
the penalty will be received and what effect it will have on the
employee.
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In announcing your decision, be understanding but
firm. Remember that you are working to build a reputation for fairness
and consistency. There is no need to apologize or feel badly about your
decision.
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In closing the interview, work to help the
employee repair his or her self-image and understand that they are
important to the organization.
Supervisors want to be liked and do not want to seem pushy or
authoritarian. But, the goal is to get the job done. The effective
supervisor encourages excellence, recognizes achievement, and disciplines
whenever necessary. The employees who work for this person produce above
average work because they feel appreciated, important, and they are treated
fairly.
For more information about
Ken Chapman and Associates’ Leadership Development Programs, contact Ken
Chapman at 205.366.0265 or email Ken at
kchapman@leaderscode.com.
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