Once upon a time a young girl named Susan lived
in a small town. It was the same town and the same street where Susan’s
mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother had all spent their
girlhoods. As Susan grew from birth to young adulthood, her mother and
grandmother gave her much advice about how to live and grow and do the
right thing.
In particular Susan’s grandmother, whom Susan
called Nannah, tried to guide her toward socially acceptable
behavior. Nannah felt her guidance was particularly important since
Susan seemed, at least to Nannah, a bit too interested in doing her own
thing. Susan was not one to be guided by conventional ways of thinking
and acting.
For example, while encouraged to play with dolls,
Susan preferred making mud pies and sand castles of her own special
design. When she was signed up for piano lessons, Susan never managed
to arrive at her teacher’s house on time — the neighborhood baseball
games proved too much of a distraction. As other girls her age went
through predictable phases and fascinations, Susan continued to march to
her own drummer.
Finally, when Susan showed up for her seventeenth
birthday party wearing cut-off jeans and a white T-shirt (rather than
the pretty cotton dress Nannah had bought for the occasion) it proved
too much for Nannah. That afternoon, Nannah reached the end of her
patience.